From reading blog posts, books, and magazine articles about sex, you’d think that technique is the most important factor in having great sex. We think that great sex is mostly about the mechanics of touching,…
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Need to Spice Up Your Sex Life? Try Vacation Sex!
No matter how much chemistry and sexual heat two people generate when they first get together, sex can become routine and kind of boring as time passes. We get into routines of doing this first,…
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4 Reasons Why You Don’t Get Sex
Sex isn’t as simple as deciding to eat an ice cream bar. If you want to enjoy an ice cream bar, it’s no big deal to go to a store, buy one, and eat one.…
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How Knowing Your Sexual Blueprint Can Improve Your Sex Life
As Xanet Pailet says in her book, Living an Orgasmic Life, “It’s hard, if not impossible, to tell your partner what you want if you don’t understand your arousal pattern.” Many people don’t know what…
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Alternative Sexual Relationships for Seniors
The Disney Princess Myth When we were growing up as baby boomers, most of us bought into the Disney Princess Myth that we learned at the movies. That myth taught us that when you’re in…
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The Joy of Sex
The Joy of Sex Book The Joy of Sex, by Dr. Alex Comfort, is the most helpful and practical sex book my wife and I have read. In 1973, my sister-in-law shared her copy of…
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Is Sex With A New Person After Your Spouse Dies Being “Disloyal”?
You may have taken a vow to be sexually faithful to your spouse “until death do us part.” However, that vow was never intended to be a vow for the rest of your life when…
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A Favorite Sex Position – Woman-On-Top “Cowgirl”
Many women enjoy having men take the lead sexually. However, it’s sometimes a nice change of pace, and exciting, for the woman to take the dominant role. Cowgirl is a position where the roles can…
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How Seniors Can Master Their Sexuality
Good sex is an art form, not just a collection of techniques. As practitioners, our goal is not to just be sexual beings (we’re already that). Our goal is to become masters of our sexuality.
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Retirement Is A Great Time for More & Better Senior Sex
The increased energy, abundant extra time, and travel options after retirement can lead to a renewal of a couple’s sexual life. Where sex had become routine and sporadic during working life, it can now become…