Need to Spice Up Your Sex Life? Try Vacation Sex!

No matter how much chemistry and sexual heat two people generate when they first get together, sex can become routine and kind of boring as time passes. We get into routines of doing this first, that second, and something else third. We need to mix things up to keep sex fresh and interesting.

Even the hottest couples sometimes need some help to spice up their sexual life. Vacation sex can help to bring new life to a routine sex life.

3 Reasons Why Vacation Sex Can be Great Sex

Vacation sex has a well-deserved reputation for generating new sexual heat. Why does vacation sex bring out those teenage hormone behaviors?

1. A different location can inspire sexual creativity. When you’re on vacation, everything is different from what it is at home. Your hotel room is a different bedroom than what you have at home, sometimes with different options.

The bed feels different. Maybe it’s softer, with luxurious bedding that makes you feel pampered, decadent, and sexy. Perhaps there’s a walk-in shower that will easily accommodate you and your lover. There’s a sofa and overstuffed chair you don’t have in your bedroom.

These new features in a hotel room can lead to creative sex! Perhaps you’ll start by making out on the sofa, then make love on the bed (or just stay on the sofa). Try out the overstuffed chair for comfortable oral sex or sitting positions. Take advantage of that huge king-size bed for some more involved sex positions.

When you’re on vacation, you’re often spending more time with your partner exploring new places together and discovering new restaurants. You’re having fun together, and enjoying each other’s company. This feeling of companionship and fun can lead to increased sexual desire for each other when you get back to your room.

2. You’re Relaxed on Vacation. Many people have very stressful jobs, in addition to home chores and responsibilities. When you’re on vacation, you’re away from all of that. You’re more relaxed and open to new possibilities.

Sexual energy thrives when we’re relaxed. Is it any wonder that we become more sexually creative and interested when we’re relaxed and away from our usual routines?

3. No one knows you when you’re on vacation. People act differently when they’re in a place no one knows them than they do when in their home setting. They feel freer, not as worried about how people will think about them.

Las Vegas has created a marketing campaign built on this concept: “What happens in Vegas stays in Vegas.” People will dress sexier and act sexier in public when in Vegas than they do when they’re in their hometown where they’re known. They feel freer to engage in atypical flirting and sexual behaviors when no one knows them.

Even behind closed doors in a hotel room, they still tend to act differently than when they’re home in their bedroom. Maybe they’ve packed a favorite sex toy or a new négligée, anticipating vacation sex. Or, they seduce their partner in a way they don’t normally do. Perhaps they desire to have sex in front of a window on the 20th floor, something they’d never even consider if they were at home.

Singles who are on vacation are more likely to hook up with an attractive man or woman when they are somewhere no one knows them. Vacation romances are a thing. Sometimes singles go on a vacation hoping for just that.

Sexy “Vacations” Come in All Shapes and Sizes

You don’t have to make a trip to Vegas or a foreign country to experience the benefits of vacation sex. It doesn’t have to be an expensive or a long trip. Vacation sex works with all kinds of vacations:

• Overnight in a local hotel. If your sex life needs a boost, and you don’t have the time or money for a longer vacation, book a night in a local hotel. The change in location and a new bedroom can inspire just as much sexual heat and creativity as a longer or more distant vacation does.
• Overnight at a town within driving distance. My partner and I enjoy taking overnight trips to towns within a 2-4 hour driving distance. In addition to the fun of exploring new locations, we also get to enjoy the advantages of vacation sex. My partner often packs her favorite sex toys in anticipation that this will be a special time for sex. We’ve found that in a hotel we’ll frequently indulge in sex play not only in the evening but also in the morning, which is not our normal pattern.
• Some hotels rent at a discounted rate just for midday. Some hotels will rent a room out for the afternoon at a discounted rate. They don’t typically advertise this, you have to call and ask. Need a sexual change of pace, but don’t want to pay for an overnight or be gone overnight? Then an afternoon at a local hotel might be a great option for you.
  

Give Vacation Sex a Try

Routine sex happens to the best of us. We all live busy lives and often have little energy left for creative, fun sex.

Vacation sex can bring new life to a dull sex life. Book an afternoon or overnight in a hotel or an extended vacation as an opportunity to get creative and spice up your sex life!