4 Reasons Why Men Love To Give Oral Sex to Women

Most women enjoy receiving oral. However, some women feel hesitant to allow a man to give them oral sex.

Some women believe that men don’t really enjoy giving oral. Perhaps they think that men just do it because it’s expected, and they don’t want to impose on men. Or, they don’t believe their vulva is attractive or desirable to men or have shame issues regarding their vulva.

The reality is that many, if not most, men love giving oral to a woman. And they enjoy doing it for as long as it takes for a woman to reach an orgasm. To these men, giving oral is not a chore, it’s a privilege and pleasure.

1. Men Enjoy Pleasing a Woman Sexually

Most men enjoy giving pleasure to their partners. In fact, “The moment his partner gets turned on is often the moment men describe as most sexually satisfying.” Laurie J Watson.

Men know that many women receive their most intense sexual pleasure from receiving oral. They enjoy giving oral because they enjoy seeing their partners enjoying the sexual pleasure they are providing them.

Men become aroused by watching and feeling a woman become aroused as he gives her oral.

Men become aroused by seeing their partners become aroused. Sexual arousal builds between partners and is a cycle of interaction and response. When I see my partner get turned on, it turns me on.

2. Men are Fascinated by Womens’ Vulvas

Guys tend to be fascinated by a woman’s vulva. We love exploring a woman with our fingers, our tongues, and our lips.

Every woman is delightfully different and a joy to discover. Much of a women’s genitals are hidden from view even when she’s nude. There is the thrill of discovery, like opening a present on Christmas Day!

Exploring a women’s vulva is like opening a present!

A woman’s genitals are entirely different from what we are as men. There are lips to nibble on and lick, a clitoris that grows as we apply stimulation. A vagina to explore with our tongue and fingers.

3. Men Love Hearing, Feeling, and Watching a Woman Orgasm

Most women cannot orgasm from intercourse alone. But women are likely to achieve orgasm from receiving oral sex.

There is nothing in this world more awesome, or more powerful, than a fully aroused woman in the throes of orgasm. When giving oral, we’re up close and personal with a woman when that happens.

Giving oral to a woman as she approaches and has an orgasm is an exciting and arousing experience for a man. You get to feel all of her subtle movements, her tremors, the way she positions her vulva that feels best to her.

As she becomes more aroused, we can hear her increasing sounds of pleasure and feel her hips begin to thrust, her back arch. She’ll often grab our head or hair and place us right where she wants us.

There is nothing in this world more awesome or more powerful, than a fully aroused woman in the throes of orgasm.

She’ll lose all her inhibitions and open her thighs wide and rest her legs on our backs. All of these movements signal her increasing arousal and approaching orgasm.

When she does cum, it’s frequently with deep tremors and a jolt of energy, a cry, a tensing of all her muscles, to be followed by deep relaxation.

Some women can continue with oral and have multiple orgasms. Others need a break until the sensitivity wears off.

4. After a Woman Orgasms from Oral, She’s More Open, Uninhibited

Many men find that after a woman has achieved orgasm from oral, she’s more open and uninhibited. She’s aroused, relaxed, and ready for intercourse.

Many men follow the “she always cums first” rule in sex and use oral as the most effective path to female orgasm. One reason for this approach is a recognition that men tend to lose all of their sexual energy when they ejaculate. Men don’t want the sexual interaction to stop before the woman has an opportunity to orgasm.

Women take time and stimulation to reach peak arousal, but when they do, it’s worth the wait.

Another reason is that men recognize that many women require an extended “warming up” period before they can become fully sexual. It’s a physiological arousal cycle that differs between men and women.

We don’t want to “short circuit” the whole process by cumming too quickly. We know that the most enjoyable, enthusiastic, and pleasurable sexual encounter we can experience will be with a woman who has already orgasmed at least once and is fully aroused and wanting sex.

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