The old joke goes, “99% of all men admit masturbating, and the other 1% are liars.” This is true even though most of us grew up in a sex-negative culture. We were taught that masturbation was a perversion or a weakness in character. In some religious circles, solo sex was considered a sin. And yet,…
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How to Give a Woman a G-Spot Orgasm
Read moreThe G-Spot is named after German gynecologist Ernst Gräfenberg, who did research about female orgasm. My understanding is that the G-Spot has not been scientifically proven to exist. However, many…
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Relaxing Sex: Doing It Side-by-Side
Read moreSex doesn’t always have to be an energetic, exhausting frenzy of animal sex. It can also be relaxing, soothing, and restful. The side-by-side position is more suited to a relaxing…
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Edging: How to Have Mind-Blowing Orgasms
Read moreMany people understand the primary goal of sex to be getting to orgasm as quickly as possible. The “slam, bam, thank you ma’am” mentality is just as true for women…
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Kinky Sex: Power Play, Bondage, and Pain, Oh My!
Read moreWhen the book Fifty Shades of Grey was released in 2011, it became an instant hit. American housewives and career women alike were turned on by thoughts of being tied…
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4 Keys To Dynamite Sex
Read moreFrom reading blog posts, books, and magazine articles about sex, you’d think that technique is the most important factor in having great sex. We think that great sex is mostly…
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Need to Spice Up Your Sex Life? Try Vacation Sex!
Read moreNo matter how much chemistry and sexual heat two people generate when they first get together, sex can become routine and kind of boring as time passes. We get into…
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4 Reasons Why You Don’t Get Sex
Read moreSex isn’t as simple as deciding to eat an ice cream bar. If you want to enjoy an ice cream bar, it’s no big deal to go to a store,…
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How Knowing Your Sexual Blueprint Can Improve Your Sex Life
Read moreAs Xanet Pailet says in her book, Living an Orgasmic Life, “It’s hard, if not impossible, to tell your partner what you want if you don’t understand your arousal pattern.”…
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Bring New Energy to Your Sex Life by Role-Playing Sexual Fantasies
Read moreWhat is Role Play? Role play is play. We all know how to do this. When we were children, we pretended to be mommies, policemen, astronauts, cowboys, soldiers, nurses, or…